A word from PCAVT Board Vice Chair, Dr. Leslie DeMars MD

A word from PCAVT Board Vice Chair, Dr. Leslie DeMars MD

PCAVT continues to be a state, national and international leader in the prevention of child sexual abuse and healthy sexual development as well as healthy parenting. While becoming Zoom proficient was never the goal for PCAVT’s staff, the pandemic’s limitations have provided a silver lining. Our education providers have been able to deliver more training programs and hold more family support programs than in the now long gone “pre-pandemic days,” and in 2021, 7,500 adults and children received direct training or support, which extends to a much larger “family” of nearly 60,000 children and adults who will be touched by these programs.

Let's All Have a Happy and Safe Holiday Season

Let's All Have a Happy and Safe Holiday Season

It is clear that COVID 19 will not end before the holidays or the New Year. Though we have taken measures to protect our families, loved ones, co-workers, and neighbors, we are going to continue to need to take special steps to ensure the well-being, mental health, and optimism of our children and teens. This means we are going to have to get creative, care for ourselves as well as we possibly can, and talk to our family members and partners as we make holiday plans.

What Do Men in Prison for Violent Crimes Have in Common?

What Do Men in Prison for Violent Crimes Have in Common?

Research tells us that a majority of men in prison were abused growing up. As a state, Vermont is dedicated to the health and safety of its most vulnerable citizens, in particular its children. Their health, education, and overall wellbeing are paramount to the future success of our state. Given this, we must focus energy and resources on the prevention of child abuse and in particular, sexual abuse.

Supporting Children and Teens As They Emerge from COVID 19 and Come Back Into the World

Supporting Children and Teens As They Emerge from COVID 19 and Come Back Into the World

This time of COVID 19 has been very difficult, and for many, still is. It has brought isolation, stress, and far too often the pandemic has meant worry about basic needs, and even life itself, for family members. Children and teens are impacted because they could not always go to school or see their friends and family members. Also, some of their parents could not always work, making access to money, food, and shelter unstable and extremely stressful.

Eliminating the Use of Physical Punishment

Eliminating the Use of Physical Punishment

Physical punishment—an adult’s use of physical force (e.g., corporal punishment, spanking, paddling) to punish a child or correct a child’s inappropriate behavior— increases aggression in young children and is ineffective in teaching a child responsibility and self-control. Substantial evidence shows negative long-term outcomes for children who are disciplined through corporal punishment. In fact, findings indicate that children who are physically punished (i.e., spanked) have similarly negative outcomes to children that are physically abused.

Why is Pride Month Important to Celebrate?

Why is Pride Month Important to Celebrate?

Talking about Pride month as a family can make a big difference in how our children see the world. Some common ways to celebrate can include attending a parade, doing a related art project, fly a pride flag, volunteer your time as a family to an LGBTQIA+ related cause, and any other way your family sees fit! While bringing more awareness during the month of June is important, we also want to be sure we are carrying this messaging through in our daily lives throughout the remainder of the year. Here are some tips on how we can do so:

Summer Programs for Children and Youth Will Help Us Start the Healing

Summer Programs for Children and Youth Will Help Us Start the Healing

As children and youth come back out to play, learn and grow in the Vermont summer, fall and winter ahead, it is up to us all to be extra aware, patient and supportive to them. Some will need extra care and help from teachers, camp counselors, early childhood professionals, mentors, health, mental health providers and relatives. It may take some time possibly years to unpack all that has happened to some children and youth during this pandemic

We will get through this together

We will get through this together

Coping with long term challenges that were supposed to be short term is not always easy…. Not for parents, grandparents, teens and children who miss “normal”. Our mental health is becoming a bit more fragile; ours and our grandparents and our teens and children. When will it really be over? Will our lives ever move forward and resemble how we lived pre-pandemic? We think so and believe so but no one can tell us for sure.